Fred Caminita: Let me first start off with that my parents have a great marriage , so I know what a "successful" ,marriage looks like. But for those who are married/ divorced / divorced and remarried. Was it what you wanted or expected?Did you do it because of social norms, pressure ,insecuritys, love , etc ? And if you did get a divorce , did the courts treat you justice or did the system fail you? Im just curious because most of the stories I hear are about men getting screwed with alimony and paying child support checks where the child might not be theirs....Show more
Ronnie Panas: It's never what you expect. It's an unraveling mystery that never ends. I wouldn't trade my wife for a billion dollars. I guess I'm lucky.
Marcellus Exler: I'd never cheat on my boyfriend BECAUSE he is the best man I've ever met. It helps a great deal that I DESPISE cheating because it's wrong and immoral and there is absolutely NO EXCUSE whatsoever for it. But especially him.! I'd never, ever cheat on him.I just don't understand why people cheat and then the people they cheat on stay with them despite the fact that they continue to cheat.I prefer building a life with someone instead of creating drama....Show more
Danica Timperman: ***Update***It seems as if many of you to offense to the fact that I question the financial dynamics of marriaige. When in fact, it is a MAJOR part of marraige and can be a determining factor if the marriage works or not. Most marraiges END because of financial reasons. And I am sorry to break the news to you, but you can't "live off of love" in 2009. So you'd better believe that the first person my son/daughter brings home to discuss marriage, I'm asking for a copy of their credit report. The fact is that money IS important and should be discussed openly at all times. I respect you answers. Thank you....Show more
Hilde Heskett: it means---you are being a pain in the butttttt
Kim Gerbino: Marriage ma! kes no sense for men whatsoever...
Alberto Kozub: Ladies! why would you cheat on a man that you would call the the ""best man'"" u ever met...What would make u do such a thing??....I'm asking ladies because i don't care why most guy cheat..as a guy I know they don't think with the right head...
Codi Manchel: Well first of all, you're in the WRONG category...you did read that this is "Marriage and Divorce" right? But you're upset so...Something must REALLY be upsetting her...you pushed her at a bad time to satisfy YOURSELF, not to give her space to herself...do you see that? The more you pushed, the further she pushes you away, I'm sure you understand that. SHE NEEDS SOME SPACE, what, you can't give her 24 hours to respond? You need immediate gratification of hearing from her?Honey, calm down...be wise...be understanding...honor her need for space and learn this NOW in life with her, with others. Suffocating someone by constant calling or texting is hugely wrong, especially when they are upset and you KNOW they are.I ho! pe you get this...I really do...I KNOW you mean well, but try to respect the wishes of others in such situations, okay?Grace...Show more
Elfreda Grossen: what get married when your 40 mate you no u cant have kids afta 60
Morris Olexy: 15 year olds should learn Better answers in S+D
Marcellus Exler: Dude..NO ONE needs a reason to cheat. You only need opportunity and a willling participant to do it. I despise cheating and cheaters.
Byron Fortmann: usually its the emotional connection and communication! If a relationship if missing that your going to have problems. Its possible she may turn else where. Always make sure u have sex at least a few times per week and sit down and chat about issues you are having at work ect.
Donnell Mollo: That shits means you need to learn to spell because I didn't understand anything you just wrote...
Torrie Weissenbach: LOL I don't think anybody should get married until over 55, it might increase the chance! s of the marriage surviving until death!Get married if you want and whe! n you want (and another party will agree to it)
Bianca Lannier: Because sometimes...even when the man is a 'good' man, he becomes selfish and thinks of himself first and only. Perhaps the man leaves his wife alone most weekends while he goes off and does what he wants to do.Perhaps then the woman develops a friendship with a man and it evolves into more than a friendship as this male friend pays more attention to her than her husband.Who is in the wrong?...Show more
Gladys Worthing: It takes time learning to love someone- sometimes we have to learn to fall in love with them all over again from day to day to keep things going strong. I see a lot of marriages end in divorce because of cheating due to one partner not feeling completely satisfied with his/her life or the marriage started to crumble- sadly, this usually happens due to the stresses of every day life. Marriages are worth it- you just have to work at it if you want it- just like everything else in life! .
Irving Jordahl: thats rediculous you retard. Who wants to marry an old man... that will never happen. If it feels right then do the right thing. You should deffinatley get married that is what men are supposed to do with there ladies. Men are supposed to raise up a family!!!! I said Men not boys who want to play there whole lives
Foster Koopmann: I make more than my husband and he makes a lot so what is the problem? It's a team effort. And I take care of all his other needs on top of it.The real question is does marriage make sense for women who work, take care of the home and take care of all of his sexual needs!
Vickie Sterbenz: To have and to holdfrom this day forward;for better, for worse,for richer, for poorer,in sickness and in health,to love and to cherish,till death us do part;according to God's holy law....Show more
Roosevelt Pendill: Marriage is a sure way to kill a man. Actually that is why we die earlier than women... we will go to the ! extreme to get out of it.
Gwenda Micheals: @ Billy: Old men get m! arried all the time dude. To women much younger mind you. The statistics are overwhelming compared to older women marrying younger men.
Davida Gisriel: I cheated on my first husband and although he wasn't the best man I'd ever met, he was a good guy who didn't deserve to be treated the way I did him. I'm not saying that to say that I was a dog and he was straight up. We both did things but I did them like 50x worse. When I say my husband was a good man, I mean that he didn't hang out with his friends all night nor did he verbally or physically abuse me nor did he disrespect me (not the majority of the time, anyway) and he was kind and gentle and humorous. He was almost 10yrs older than me, I looked at him more as a father than a boyfriend. I was 15 when I met him. We were together 12yrs- married for 4yrs- before he passed away. Once I started developing a sense of independence, I started growing away from him. However, I was too afraid to let him go. So, you can say I! cheated because I was sexually curious and adventurous and he was the absolute opposite. Because I had this daddy complex, I was afraid of what he'd think of me in knowing that I wanted to do things differently so I hid all that I did for years. I didn't have sex with other people to hurt him, I held on to him while having sex with others, is what hurt him. He never knew any of the stuff I did and went to his grave never knowing. I'm not an authority on all women. Those were my reasons. For some women, it's nothing more than realizing that love won't bring you to the big O. She can love the good guy but if he's not putting it down in the bedroom, she'll still feel incomplete. For some other women, it's a case of still feeling like she's desired- and nothing feeds a woman's ego better than a horny man because he'll tell her whatever she wanna hear. Some women do it for attention. Some for sexual incompatibility. There's no general reason why ALL people cheat, men or women..! ..Show more
Stanton Villao: The slightest concern should send you! running.. I got married when I found a partner with a good example of a happy family. They turned out like the troubled rest of us. Marriage is WORK. Period. If you feel the need to get married in the eyes of God well that is something else. But, your worried about alimony and you haven't even said the vows. Don't get married.
Toya Braskett: Yes it is. Married the love of my life. had two great kids, played baseball, hockey with one and the other gymnastic and track. It called life? Your mom and Dad did it so did your Grandparents. You do and should get married. Have kids, the fights, yelling, But it takes 2 people that understand how to work together to be that one body and sole. I happen to be going on 25 years very soon. The love is turned down somewhat. but we both do love each other. Devorce is so easy today, what ever happened to lets work it out. My marraige is not great. We both have cheated, but we work at it. And want our kids to no you dont just giv! e up. Sure there are people who just cant, But your looking at and hearing the failed side of it. Like why buy a car? im just going to crash it. Everyone says so. Its your life! and when you meet that one person, or maybe you did. You no it. Dont live together and say why get married, its like we are now. And yes you could not stay married. I spent so many years with my wife, all together, 31 years. Dont think i want to go into the market to find another. If people would just try harder and not just call it quits so easy. I can tell them all how bad it was in mine! And we work through it. Marraige is a bond! Between a man an a woman. Till death do you part. That sounds bad, but I hope I die first. Dont want the pain of being without her, my wife. Hope I shed so light on this for you....Show more
Jude Colbenson: Why? If your wife works it is less you have to pay for. Having two incomes in a home is much more financially beneficial than 1. Besides 1/4 of women make m! ore than their partnersRegardless, if marriage becomes a financial decis! ion you shouldn't be getting married.
Robin Marchione: If you are looking at marriage solely from a financial point of View, then you are not ready for marriage.
Frank Crummell: Studies have shown that married men are happier, healthier, and higher-earning than unmarried/divorced men. So if you're a man, it's generally to your benefit to get married and stay married. It's not just down to luck. It's about taking your time, really getting to know the character of the other person, and working to make yourself a person of integrity. It's about being committed to the marriage "for better or for worse," and understanding that life will sucker-punch you both from time to time. It's even about practical day-to-day things like both of you sticking to a budget. Most marriages that end in divorce probably didn't have to go that way....Show more
Jinny Dronen: sometimes i know it can be hard to accept but your gf's life does not revolve around you. If she is upset ab! out home and feels ;like not talking be patient and tell her you'll be there when she's ready to talk, or if she wants to take her mind off it. Her not answering is most likely nothing to do with your relationship, you might be over thinking things.
Marylee Lucks: It means you expect her to be at your beck and call and you only think about yourself. Keep that sh*t up and she will dump you. I know I would.
Keven Woodington: I'm a man, and it made sense for me! I got married at age 23, and I have been married for 23 years so far. I have certainly prospered financially. My wife worked while I went to graduate school. She earned a bachelor's and has worked for a good salary most of her life. We are both far better off financially together than we would have been apart.PS - If you think money is the most important thing in life, above love and family, for example, I feel a little sorry for you. I hope you can get some perspective in your life....Show more
Jestine Osumi: I know you just want to hearfrom women but i gota tell you,everybody cheats for the same reason low self esteen they need constant affermation that they are desireable and most don't even know it themselves thats why im tellig you they don't know,the ot6her reason is to get someyhing in return i.e drugs,money
Rick Duchane: I dont. Nor have I ever. Nor would I.there is NO! excuse for people that cheat. men cheat for sex, that they are not getting at home.women cheat for the emotional lack of affections they are not getting at home.in both cases, some women are just wh*res, and men the same.There is no legitimate, justifiable reason to cheat on your spouse....Show more
Leif Andreason: Sorry for my bad language
Idell Mulliniks: Most people, and especially women, cheat because they are not getting their emotional needs met. A man can be wonderful, but if he is not giving a woman what she needs (i.e. affection, companionship, communication, sex, etc) and someone else comes along and begins telling her how wonderful she is, she can get her head turned. Of course, that is no reason to cheat. If a person has their personal boundaries set correctly, they can nip this in the bud immediately. I think that people get complacent in a relationship and let it grow stagnant. They think that since there is love that they don't have to tend! to the other person's needs and the exact opposite is true! So, I hop! ed that kind of answered your question....Show more
Brenton Cornwall: I think a lot of women cheat cuz they love attention from men...Sex for women is more emotional and can be beneficial to there esteem in some situations when they have little.These of course are the women with issues. IE..no daddy...not enough love growing up..They will spend there whole life looking for love and attention wherever they can get it.Thats just my opinion though....Show more
Marielle Hedeiros: It means leave her alone and give her some space. She quite clearly asked for that, stop texting and calling, she can see on her phone you called, when she wants to ring back she will. Having five missed calls from you will piss her off and she'll be angry when she does call back.Also, calling your girlfriend *****, what the f*ck is wrong with you? She's your girlfriend, show her some respect....Show more
Len Dalba: I don't know anyone that cheats.... when they already have the bes! t.they cheat... when what they have sucks.
Lucille Saetteurn: if men are going to marry, then should get the woman to sign a pre-nup as standard!!!
Renay Billiar: So....because guys are too stupid to think with the right head, that makes it OK for them too cheat?But when a woman cheats...it is the ultimate wrong?You have some flawed thinking.A decent women will not cheat on a good man, she knows how lucky she is....Show more
Dexter Dicostanzo: Financially, if you are not financially sound, it does not matters. Marriage is love bonding between 2 persons. 2 persons staying, living and enjoying together for the latter days in life. Understand and accepting the bad and good side of the person. Of course, if you do not have siblings, children, then you need to be financially sound to survive or there are institutions to take care of you. Age is immaterial but maturity is vital.
Dallas Bartolini: I text my GF last night and she didn't reply me i called her! many times after the text so again she didnt reply me and after an hou! r she replied and said that i am sad and tired i wanna think i will text you later because she had some problem in home...Today i text her and she didnt replied me again I called her like 5 times it was the same then i entered in facebook and text her that ****** why you are not replying me she signed out so after some hours she text me and said that I am in school again i called and she talked with me what all these shits means...Show more
Codi Manchel: No it isn't. Even when you think you can trust your wife, they end up betraying you in the end. There's nothing beneficial for men to get married or have kids.
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